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Kindness for Conflict - A Guide to Separation & Divorce

Kindness for Conflict - a Guide to Separation & Divorce author Tosh Brittan
Tosh Brittan author of Kindness for Conflict - a Guide to Separation and Divorce

Kindness for Conflict offers separating couples and families hope that there is a better way, and gives them tips to use along the way.


It looks at how changing a few small things, and remembering what you can (and cannot) control, can make big differences and lead to positive outcomes. I thoroughly recommend this book, which is brimming with positivity.

You CAN have a kinder separation!” 


— Rebecca Hawkins, Family Solutions, Specialist in non-court options for families


A Guide to Separation & Divorce

You may ask how can kindness make a difference in divorce.


Am I weak if I am kind? How does kindness work to support you, if you have an angry, difficult or narcissistic Ex?

This book will guide you through a kinder divorce journey that has helped so many to go from anger, sadness and pain, to calm, clarity and confidence.

Get your copy of Kindness for Conflict


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Purchasing the book gives you access to a QR code to more resources such as Free Meditations​ and Courses, Divorce Goddess Empowerment Library​​, 15% Discount On a 1 To 1 Divorce Coaching Call, and Divorce Goddess Podcast Resources

Are you thinking about or going through a divorce and thinking is there a kinder way?

If any of these apply to you then you have found this book for a reason:

  • You don’t want to be that divorcee who’s still angry in five years’ time

  • You don’t trust yourself to be kinder, the narrative says it might not work and is seen as weak (FYI, kindness is clever!)

  • You feel heartbroken, and angry and don’t want to feel like this forever

  • Your relationship with your Ex is exhausting 

  • You have fallen into the divorce rabbit hole and need a framework and plan to navigate your way out

  • You know you are strong inside, but just don’t feel it and need to know how to access your inner strength

  • You fear being judged, and a failure for getting a divorce

  • You worry about your children, will they be all right, how do you protect them from divorce and can you co-parent well moving forwards?

  • You are ready to step into your power, say yes to yourself and start living again


“As someone who has been involved in peace building in both the family and Irish spheres, I have been looking forward to the publication of “Kindness for Conflict”.


I have massive respect and admiration for the book’s author, Tosh Brittan aka @divorcegoddess who has been a thought changer around divorce for a number of years. Tosh advocates for a more integrated approach to this difficult, painful and often challenging life event.


Her podcasts are fantastic and her “Kindness for Conflict” divorce coaching model is a game changer. I believe that this will be a “must read” for all of us who are involved in family conflict resolution in whatever capacity.”


— James Stewart, Chambers HNW Family Lawyer of the Year
Tosh Brittan author of Kindness for Conflict - a guide to separation and divorce
What More Experts Say About Kindness for Conflict



“Kindness is not often a word associated with divorce, but this book offers anyone going through separation the hope that it is possible. It is a shining light there to guide separating couples.


It is jam-packed with lots of tips to show that small changes really can make a big difference. The book is enlightening, empowering, and a real must-read for anyone starting out on their divorce journey. It’s a timely reminder that you have the power to decide what your divorce will look like.”

Liza Gattrell, Family Lawyer

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