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Why have a divorce coach...?
Can you relate to this?
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Do you know a divorcee?
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How do they feel to you when divorce is mentioned?
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Do you want to be that person in one, five or ten years time?
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If not, then you have found this site for a reason...
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Are you tired of feeling angry, sad and heartbroken?
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Do you feel ashamed, a failure and fear loneliness?
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Do you want to move on with your life?
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You want a professional, discrete and confidential coach who understands you
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"When I grow up, I wish with all my heart to be a divorcee," said no one, ever!
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I believe in empowering clients to:​
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grow divorce resilience and feel stronger through the process
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manage emotions better to prevent unnecessary conflict
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take back control of the DMMs (Divorce Mind Monkeys)
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be less triggered by their Ex and minimise conflict
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identify abusive behaviour and set better boundaries
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prepare emotionally for pickups and drop-offs, meetings and mediation
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grow a positive coparenting relationship with their Ex
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take those important steps forward and feel empowered
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establish good mental wellbeing practices to access inner peace
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​make kinder, calmer and lasting powerful changes.
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​After each coaching session you’ll be emailed comprehensive notes, a bespoke action plan and the confidence to take positive empowered steps forwards.
Thank you words...of testimonial audio link​
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When you say 'YES' to yourself, it is possible for you to...
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Live a future life with less divorce emotional baggage
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Coparent well and have happier children
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Stand in your power and not be triggered by your Ex
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Thrive rather than survive
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To manage loneliness, have the confidence to date and find new love
It is like anything in life...
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"We all have to do, what we don't want to do, to get to where we want to go..."
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Except now you will not be on your own...
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I ensure you will have:
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Discretion and confidentiality
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11+ years of divorce coaching and 20+ of therapeutic experience
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Gentle, kind and no-nonsense accountability to get things done
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Expert guidance to help you navigate the emotional and mental struggles that typically come with separation and divorce.
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And in case you are wondering... There's always laughter, and swearing is allowed!
I am so grateful to Tosh and for her coaching and course, it has started me on a healing path I didn’t think possible. With the end of my 42-year marriage, I was searching for help with acceptance and letting go.
The coaching and course helped me with my negative thinking and fixed beliefs and even made me see the possibility of forgiveness! It’s a work in progress but I could never have gotten this far without Tosh.
Tosh came into my life just when I needed a miracle!
Elizabeth, Croydon
Testimonial
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Testimonial
After my 36-year relationship came to a sudden end, I had been gradually putting myself together again, but when I heard about Tosh and the support she offers. She has been absolutely amazing. Providing a calm, patient and totally non-judgemental approach as she guided me through ways to cope with my emotions and recognising my achievements so far.
Two close friends have independently told me how I seem to be much stronger recently and much more positive and content. This is certainly true, and I am so grateful that Tosh has helped me accept what happened, and look forward to what is to come, not look back and feel like a victim.
I would have no hesitation to recommend Tosh to others who need help putting themselves back together after a break-up, or who want to learn how to be empowered to deal with an ex-partner.
Sue M, York
Kindness for Conflict
A Guide to Separation & Divorce
"Kindness for Conflict offers separating couples and families hope that there is a better way, and gives them tips to use along the way. I thoroughly recommend this book, which is brimming with positivity. You CAN have a kinder separation!”
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Rebecca Hawkins - Family Solutions, Specialist in non-court options for families
